I have noticed that my Facebook feed has come alive with links to blogposts and videos. So long status updates. I have been reading different ones that my friends have posted, and I came across this one about waiting for your future spouse. Here's the link if you would like to read it:
The point of my blogpost is not to discuss how one might get a future spouse...but I thought that she had some good points about what it means to follow Christ. Many of the things that she mentions are lessons that I have been fed throughout my life. Things such as, "If you delight in the Lord, He will you give the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4), and that means that when you desire God enough, He will give you a husband. I know that these lessons my Sunday School teachers and youth leaders taught were meant to keep hormonally-charged girls from giving their hearts to any boys who showed them attention, and I'm sure that they had many positive effects on me as well as others. However, I agree with this fellow blogger that these might not be the BEST messages to be feeding into young girls. We, as women, were not made solely to find a husband and settle down. Our purpose in life is to glorify Christ through our lives while being in relationship with Him. Shouldn't that be the message we are spreading constantly through word and deed?
"Christ is the source of everything we need and the giver of all good gifts … but in telling people about Him, it’s possible we’ve sold them on a solution for life’s problems and not life itself."
How true those words are. I have come to realize that a lot of modern evangelism tools focus on "getting people to heaven" and "saving them from hell", rather than helping them to recognize the gloriousness of who God is and what it means to be redeemed and reconciled unto Him. Is being a Christian really about what we can get from God? About a deal we make with Him?
No.
It's not.
It's about who He is. God of the Universe, Redeemer of our souls. He is the definition of holy, good, power, majesty. Christianity is about recognizing these things, realizing that He is all that matters. YET, we cannot know God because of our sin. We cannot know His holiness, goodness, power, and majesty because of who we are in our sin. There is a separation there that cannot be overlooked or tolerated. This is why Christ died on the cross. Because He loves us. Because He IS good, powerful, and mighty. Because He IS love.
"Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins." - 1 John 4:8-10
It's all about Him.
Not about the deals we can make with Him, or what we get out of it. It's all about who He is.
This has changed my whole perspective on life. If this is the way that I view the world, then everything I receive from Him is a complete blessing, undeserved. If He is what fully satisfies my soul, everything else is extra luxury.
So tomorrow is Thanksgiving. I haven't intentionally been thinking about what it means to be thankful, as maybe I should during this season, but it seems like God decided He would show me anyways by teaching me these things.
What does it mean to be thankful? What is the secret to being truly content?
Realizing that it's not about us.
"The happy life is this - to rejoice to thee, in thee, and for thee." - St. Augustine, Confessions.
